Better Sex

Better Sex Tips - How To Make Sure She Never Fakes Her Orgasms With You!

2006-11-29T19:56:00.000-08:00

Better Sex Tips - How To Make Sure She Never Fakes Her Orgasms With You!

Hello friends,

Today’s article covers an issue that haunts men
who take their skills as a lover very seriously
(which is most men by the way).

In fact I have discovered that when it comes to
the topic of sex most men are actually more
uncomfortable than women when discussing it with
the opposite sex.

I’m not talking about guys talking smack in the
locker room. I am talking about real, honest,
sexual communication with the opposite gender.

But that is a topic for another time. Today’s
Question is from Andy who writes…

QUESTION FROM A READER>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Thanks for your briefing about sex, orgasm and
related. My Question is -- How do you know that
a woman is orgasming (I mean 100% sure)

Andy

MY RESPONSE>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Hi Andy.

How do you know that a woman is orgasming I mean
100% sure?

Hmmm… let me count the ways.

Signs of Impending Orgasm...

As she gets closer and closer her vaginal muscles
will tense more and more. Her mental focus will
be on the source of sexual stimulation, her
extraneous body movements may decrease or increase
(usually decrease) her eyes will close, her face
and chest will flush, the muscles around her
vaginal opening will clench tighter and tighter.

The muscles in her abdomen, pelvis, hips and thighs
will tense, her back will arch and she may thrust
her hips forward toward the source of the stimulation,
and finally usually right before she climaxes there
will be what I call " the calm before the storm" just
before she goes over the edge of climax she will
completely freeze up this may last anywhere from one
to five seconds after which all of her muscles
spontaneously relax and she becomes lost in wave
after wave of orgasmic release.

Some women will make lots of noise, some will be
absolutely silent, some will moan, some will even purr.

The verbal responses to orgasm are highly individual
and therefore not always reliable. The physiological
indicators I outlined above are very reliable. Plus
when you learn the one orgasm women can not fake you
will always know that you got her off.

It’s easy to think your woman is orgasming if you only
pay attention to the sounds that she makes.

Remember a master key to being a true sexual master
is the ability to read and interpret what is going
on with your partner’s body in ways most men truly
have no clue about.

It takes some time and a bit of practice but when you
finally begin to notice the indicators I am describing
they become like a sexual GPS that will tell you exactly
what you need to be doing and how to do it in the way
that fits your woman the best and that’s a level of
sexual skill every woman lusts for in a man and it makes
you a veritable god among ants!

Don’t take my word for any of this. Take the techniques
I have given you and use them on your women and prove
to yourself just how powerful and unstoppable they are!
Besides the homework is a heck of a lot of fun!

If you're really serious about pleasing your woman
better than any man ever has (or ever will), then you
really need to check out my special course "Secret
Orgasm Tips"

Once you learn my secrets, you'll never have to worry
about a woman EVER faking with you again!

Click Here To Download Secret Orgasm Tips

All the Best,

David Van Arrick

Better Sex Tips For Women

2006-11-14T04:48:00.000-08:00

Better Sex Tips For Women

Today we discuss better sex tips for women. Women sure can be charming by the way they present themselves and also by the way they dress up. But men like women who are also great in bed. Men like women who take the initiative and are confident in their sexual act. Men like women who give them complete pleasure and satisfaction at the end of the sexual act and they themselves should feel satisfied with their partners. Let's discuss some better sex tips for women in the next paragraph.

It is often said that women only when women have 7 times the pleasure as men that women can reach an orgasm. A woman can have no orgasm but that does not mean she is not satisfied after the act. At the same time a woman may have multiple orgasms at the same time. The ultimate aim for a woman would be to satisfy her partner and herself. A woman should devise new ways to excite her man in the beginning and get him involved completely in the sexual act. She can also gift herself or her man sex videos that are sure going to turn them both on. Sex videos are a great resource to learn the finer and more beautiful nuances of sex. Videos also help you learn the different sex positions to that sex does not become a monotonous act.

A better sex tips for women would be to get stimulated in the beginning. Performing sex just for the sake of doing it won't bring in any enthusiasm and pleasure. Very important part is to be you in the sexual act. After some time can respond according to what your man wants. Be as flexible as possible in the whole act. Try out different things to excite your partner like tying a handkerchief around his eyes and then slowly running your fingers on his body. Or you can write erotic stories and then narrate them to your partner in order to stimulate him and respond to your demands.

Tell your partner how comfortable you feel in his arms and thank him for the great experience. Tell him that you both would like to take the fantastic journey as much as you can. This is sure going to build a stronger sexual bond between you and your partner. In the end you can also create an environment to excite your partner like lighting candles in the room and keeping the room dark.

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About The Author

Leah Holden is The "Better Sex Expert".

Leah's mission is sharing her vast array of sexual knowledge
with individuals and couples.

To spice up your sex life, please visit: Secret Orgasm Tips

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Better Sex Series

2006-11-12T04:16:00.000-08:00

Better Sex Series

People are looking for better sex series day after day. In the past sex series were rare and people made do with magazines and sex books. However sex series have caught up very quickly and people love it. The sex series are proving to be the most widely used sources of sex education for singles as well as couples all around the world. This is because they are easily available and you can see the exact act right before your very eyes. Let's discuss more on better sex series in the next paragraphs.

You can visit your local store to buy a full set of better sex series. Most of the store owners will give you a good discount if you buy the whole set. You can also log on to the internet and find your favorite titles. You can also place your orders online and the series will be shipped to your residence within a few days of placing the order.

Better sex series can show you how to try out different positions and help you enjoy your sexual act. You and your partner can watch the better se series in your bedroom and then emulate the couple in the series. You can also try out your own positions. You will have to remember that whatever sexual act you do, both of you should be very comfortable with each other during the act. Better sex series helps you to achieve confidence in the act and also makes you take the initiative. It is not necessary that every time you take the initiative. Let your partner also take the initiative. Encourage her to do so. Better sex series also give you good tips on foreplay. Foreplay is very important before actual sex as it builds up excitement and let's the sexual last for a longer time. It also builds up the tempo as you can start slowly and then pick up pace.

Better sex stories are a must have for all newly married couples to remove the hindrances that the have in their minds for sex. It is natural that everyone is not so confident of themselves in the beginning, but after watching the series they can take steps in the right direction. However better sex series can prove to be an addiction, so maintain good control on watching the videos. It should not interfere with your work or your career.

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About The Author

Leah Holden is The "Better Sex Expert".

Leah's mission is sharing her vast array of sexual knowledge
with individuals and couples.

To spice up your sex life, please visit: Secret Orgasm Tips

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Better Sex Video Series

2006-11-10T01:58:00.000-08:00

Better Sex Video Series

One of the best ways to enjoy and learn new sex techniques is buying a better sex video series. A better sex video series can provide you excellent information and newer ways to enjoy your sexual act. The video series will help you to know the importance of sex. The video series teaches you the different positions through which you can do your sexual act. A better sex video series also stresses on the point that you should be an active partner during the sexual act and not be a mere spectator. This is because if your partner finds of that you are not much interested in the act and always he takes the initiative then he might become frustrated after a while. Always remember that you are not here as a critic for your act but a serious participant.

Sex is not a duty or a formality to be completed but it is an act that has to be enjoyed throughout. A better sex video series helps you understand that sex is very necessary for a successful marriage. Sex is not everything in a marriage but sex is a very important component of your marriage. A better sex video series consists of a set of 2-6 cds that might be in a continuation series or on totally different subjects. For example, in case you want to know everything about Kamasutra, then you will have to buy a full set of DVDs as Kamasutra has more than a hundred different positions.

A better sex video series teaches you the finer nuances of sex, where you and your partner can see the full video and become experts within a few days. As a result you can share tips with friends as well. A better sex video series can be bought from your local store or can be ordered on the internet. There are hundreds of websites on the internet which have very good collections of a better sex video series. These series are sold at very reasonable costs and you are sure to find what you are looking for.

A better sex video series will reach your home in a few days after placing the order for the same. Do not watch all the series in one go. Watch just one series, enjoy it and then slowly proceed to the other cds. As a result you will be able to keep control on your sexual urge and will not be easily distracted during working hours in the day. At night you can tell your partner to watch the series with you and then enjoy the fantasies that you and your partner design in mid air.

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About The Author

Leah Holden is The "Better Sex Expert".

Leah's mission is sharing her vast array of sexual knowledge
with individuals and couples.

To spice up your sex life, please visit: Secret Orgasm Tips

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Have Better Sex

2006-11-08T03:51:00.000-08:00

Have Better Sex

People are trying new ways to have better sex than what they already have. To have better sex is an art and a skill that can be learnt from experience and other sources. Remember that sex is a mind game and it will turn out to be better on how you play it. First and foremost you can have better sex by enjoying every moment of the sexual act. Appreciate your partner in her sexual act and be confident throughout. Sex does not start under the bed sheet. It starts to kindle inside by a touch. Yes touch is very necessary to stimulate feelings inside the body. You can start by caressing your partner gently on her lips and hair and then moving on slowly to her private parts. Make your partner feel at ease during the sexual act. Get her in confidence and assure her that you both are going to have the best time of your lives every time you both have sex.

Also to have better sex you must try out newer and newer ways to excite her. You can buy a vibrator and then slowly run it in her private parts to get her excited. In case you are a woman, you can get your guy excited by planting a deep kiss on his lips and then kissing him all over the body. You can then proceed with oral sex, off course if he is willing to go for it. Try out different positions and find out what gives you immense pleasure. You can repeat the same act next time if you are satisfied.

Remember that having better sex is a mind game. You should be able to look and feel sexy to excite your partner. For example come out of the bath completely naked and then try to seduce your partner. Believe me, most of the time your partner will give in to your demands. You can also create your own positions or refer to positions in the Kamasutra. There are hundreds of positions in the Kamasutra that you can try out. Kamasutra books and video series are easily available on the internet.

To have better sex is to maintain closeness with your partner throughout your married life. Do not ever let the zeal run out of your mind, no matter how old you get. Having sex once in while builds a great amount of love, respect and excitement for each other. In the end never let your love for each other fade away.

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About The Author

Leah Holden is The "Better Sex Expert".

Leah's mission is sharing her vast array of sexual knowledge
with individuals and couples.

To spice up your sex life, please visit: Secret Orgasm Tips

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Better Sex Life

2006-11-05T18:34:00.000-08:00

Better Sex Life

Often people attribute their failed marriage to a failed sex life. Either one or both the partners are not willing have sex due to problems like stress, tension, work overload etc. However it should be remembered that sex is not everything in marriage but sex is still a very important part of marriage. Sex is an experience that should be enjoyed by both the partners right till the last act. A better sex life does lead to a great married life in most cases. So what are the secrets to a better sex life? Let's discuss the tips for a better sex life in detail in the next paragraphs.

The first and foremost thing for a better sex life is that the feelings for each other should come from the heart. The ultimate aim is to enjoy your sex life and constantly devising something new. You should always encourage your partner and let him bring the best in her and also in you. Always motivate each and other and be by one's side in case one is facing a problem. Sex is not a duty to be performed; it is a fantasy that has to be brought in reality. A better sex life always plays a very important part in maintaining good health. Research suggests that people with better sex life are immune to many diseases and also people remain active. Research suggests that people who don't have a good sex life often become frustrated easily and are extremely short tempered. Also they often lead a life which seems to be incomplete.

Hence it is true that a better sex life leads to a better married life. Quarrels between the couple will be less as sex brings the best in both of you. Sex brings you to closer as you develop close relations with each other. Better sex life often is the end to all the quarrels. Also a better sex life is enhanced with a loving touch occasionally. You can indulge in a non sexual touch like rubbing your partner's shoulders or just holding hands when in a car or a garden. It is not necessary that you touch your partner only during sex. After all there is much more to marriage than sex and that is the feeling of being secure and close in each other's company. There are also a lot of books on better sex life that you and your partner can refer to and practice the principles stated in the books in real life.

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About The Author

Leah Holden is The "Better Sex Expert".

Leah's mission is sharing her vast array of sexual knowledge
with individuals and couples.

To spice up your sex life, please visit: Secret Orgasm Tips

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How To Kiss Like A Moviestar

2006-11-02T14:39:00.000-08:00

By David Van Arrick

Hello my care free and courageous connoisseurs
of creative kissing and countless carnal pleasures,
Tis I! Your buddy, the one and only David Van Arrick!

I'm back to share some more outstanding insights
into the world of all things erotic, carnal and
ultimately orgasmic.

Now the interesting thing you will discover as we
journey together on the forbidden path to true sexual
mastery is that the path itself has many seemingly
unrelated tangents and offshoots -- twists and turns
that sometimes seem to have no direct relation to the
forbidden arts of sexual mastery as most folks would
understand them but have faith and pay attention
because the connections often become excitingly
immediately apparent as time goes on...

However...

Today's installment is not one of those cases!

In fact far from being obscure this particular post
concerns one of my very favorite topics --- Kissing!

If your kissing game sucks, you're probably not going
to get any further in the course of making love to a
woman because many many women judge how good a lover
you are by the way you kiss her the very first time.

Although many women are more than willing to kiss you
a second time in the hopes you just had an off moment,
the bottom line is if your kiss can't make her toes
curl, buckle her knees and have her heart pounding
and racing in her chest like a hyper-active jackhammer,
your probably going to find yourself immediately shoved
into the "love-dud" category or the Joe-average lover
slot to say the least.

That's not a good place to be, believe me.

Well I don't know about you but I don't accept mediocrity
in my life in any way, and especially not in my sexual
and romantic skills and neither should you.

Now for today's question...

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Dear Sir,

You write: "When you go in for the kiss, cup her face in
both of your hands so that your palms are gently cradling
her jaw line and your thumbs are just in front of cheek
bones."

This seems really awkward, Normally, I like to move in
with my mouth then slowly get my hands involved. ( I
don't mean feel her up, I mean more along the lines of
what you describe -- I just introduce it later in the
process). How do I go about your way without it being
really awkward?

Thanks

Cahn
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Dear Cahn,

Well I think we understood you weren't going to feel her
up right on the initial kiss but thanks for the
clarification none the less.

First of all I'm not sure exactly what you mean when you
say you feel awkward. But from what you do say it appears
that the order in which you bring your hands into play
lies at the root of that awkwardness.

The simplest way is when your ready to go in for her
first kiss...

Look her deeply in the eyes, allow your hands to slowly
but gently touch the side of her cheek you can use one
or both hands.

I find for first kisses the two hand approach works much
better. Cup the back of her head or contour her jaw line
with the palm of your hand.

Your thumb can rest either just in front of the ear or
on the cheekbone just below her eye or any point in
between. While maintaining eye contact, gently draw her
lips to yours. Allow your eyes to close as your lips
gently touch.

That's the quick lesson.

For First kisses, I always use my palms to face technique.

Why?

Because It Just Plain Works More Reliably Powerfully and
Consistently Than Any Other Method of First Kissing I Have
Tried!

I discovered many years ago that when you really want to
get a woman's romantic desires clicked into over drive
the fastest way to do it is by touching her anywhere on
her face while your kissing her.

Now pay attention here folks.

Notice I did not say her sexual drives!

Understand that kissing certain areas of her body will
signal her to become romantically turned on, and
consistently more passionate, while others will actually
stimulate and accelerate her sexual drives and desires.

The first thing you want to do with any woman, (at least
in the world of David) is get her romantic muscles flexing
and her passions enflamed... Why?

Because her sexual drives inevitably follow her romantic
drives!

Guys this is important...

If you can't create that physical/emotional connection or
chemistry necessary to turn her emotional sparks into a
roaring flame, your likely to throw too much fuel on the
fire to fast. The result...

All progress stops and the fire goes out!

Have you ever tried to fan a small flame in order to make
it grow and accidently blew it out?

In your effort to feed it more oxygen you actually gave it
too much fuel too fast and poof!

Out goes the flame!

That's what I'm talking about when it comes to enflaming
a woman's passions.

Your kiss creates the tiny flame i.e. the connection
(everything is clicking for her inside) the touch on the
face adds just enough fuel at just the right pace to cause
that romantic spark to grow into a passionate flame.

Once the passion fire is really burning, if you know where
to go you can actually transition to other parts of her
body that acts as sexual accelerators, which means that
you are actually transitioning her from a predominantly
emotional sense of arousal to equally physical sensation
of arousal.

You see the key to mind blowing sex is not how big your
penis is or how good looking you are or even how long you
can last in the sack...

The key is... How Deeply Aroused You Can Get Her!

You will discover that the root of many of the obstacles
you will face in your journey to sexual mastery will
ultimately come down to this one simple element --

Lack of Sexual Arousal!

The more aroused your partner becomes the more receptive
she is to all manner of sexual acts, stimulations, and
intensities!

Don't take my word for it!

Prove it to yourself... master the art of building sexual
tension taught in my Secret Orgasm Tips course and she
will think your the greatest lover she's ever had or will
have the first night your together!

Click Here To Download Now!

For all of you who wrote in with some really great
questions be on the look out for more answers and
awe inspiring techniques and concepts that will turn
you from Joe average lover into a sexual superstar
practically overnight.

All the Best!

David Van Arrick

Better Sex Series : Where To Look For Them?

2006-10-29T17:51:00.000-08:00

Better Sex Series : Where To Look For Them?

People are looking for better sex series day after day. In the past, sex series were rare and people made do with magazines and sex books. However, sex series have caught up very quickly and people love it. The sex series are proving to be the most widely used sources of sex education for singles as well as couples all around the world. This is because they are easily available and you can see the exact act right before your very eyes. Let's discuss more on better sex series in the next paragraphs.

You can visit your local store to buy a full set of better sex series. Most of the store owners will give you a good discount if you buy the whole set. You can also log on to the internet and find your favorite titles. You can also place your orders online and the series will be shipped to your residence within a few days of placing the order.

Better sex series can show you how to try out different positions and help you enjoy your sexual act. You and your partner can watch the better se series in your bedroom and then emulate the couple in the series. You can also try out your own positions. You will have to remember that whatever sexual act you do, both of you should be very comfortable with each other during the act. Better sex series helps you to achieve confidence in the act and also makes you take the initiative. It is not necessary that every time you take the initiative. Let your partner also take the initiative. Encourage her to do so.

Better sex series also give you good tips on foreplay. Foreplay is very important before actual sex as it builds up excitement and let's the sexual last for a longer time. It also builds up the tempo as you can start slowly and then pick up pace.

Better sex stories are a must have for all newly married couples to remove the hindrances that the have in their minds for sex. It is natural that everyone is not so confident of themselves in the beginning, but after watching the series they can take steps in the right direction. However better sex series can prove to be an addiction, so maintain good control on watching the videos. It should not interfere with your work or your career.

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About The Author

Leah Holden is The "Better Sex Expert".

Leah's mission is sharing her vast array of sexual knowledge
with individuals and couples.

To spice up your sex life, please visit: Secret Orgasm Tips

****************************************************

How To Give Your Woman 5 to 10 Orgasms In One Night!

2006-10-26T21:33:00.000-07:00

By David Van Arrick

Our latest question is from James who writes,

"Can all women have multiple orgasms? Mine says
she is satisfied after one clitoral climax and is too
sensitive for any more touching."
July 2005 - James

Dear James,

In my experience all women are capable of multiple
orgasms and continuous orgasms, (there is a difference
by the way). Now if your woman says she is satisfied
with one (and you believe her), that would more than
likely be the end of the story.

However many women who "say" they are satisfied with
just one orgasm have trained themselves to be that way
and this is usually for one of several reasons.

A)The first orgasm is intense and she gets too sensitive
afterwards; as in your case.

B) She doesn't believe she can have multiples because
she has never had them before.

C) Every so often there are control issues involved that
may take a little more skill and finesse to overcome.

In this newsletter we will deal directly with your particular
situation. First of all every woman (barring physiological
or psychological issues) is capable of achieving multiple
orgasms beyond a shadow of a doubt just as all women can
have an ejaculatory orgasm!

The challenge becomes -- how do you get her there?

When your woman gets too sensitive (which happens with
every woman by the way) all you really have to do is cut the
intensity of your stimulation to about one tenth of what you
did to get her to orgasm in the first place.

(This does take some finesse and practice by the way but
it's well the time it takes to learn this sexually awe inspiring
skill.)

This is where techniques like the magic touch and the ten keys
to maximum sexual arousal taught in my book absolutely must
come into play.

Remember I said in book one that orgasms make a woman
more responsive to sexual stimulation and that's true, but like
men, women also have a "refractory period" between orgasms
during which time the same level and type of stimulation will
cause "over-stimulation and discomfort to her?"

In order to counteract this effect you can do one or all of the
following:

A) Decrease the amount of pressure you're using (the one tenth rule
is a good place to start). Magic Touching will help you get beyond
this barrier to multiple orgasms by training you to have a more
sensitive and delicate touch that lets you skyrocket her sexual
desire and arousal without have to press or stroke nearly as hard.

Using too much pressure is a common mistake when fingering or using
your tongue and the training exercises in "Secret Orgasm Tips" will help you tremendously. They have made a huge difference in my love making skills and they will do the same for you!

B) Switch the type of stimulation you are using along with the
pressure. If you're using an up and down stroke change to a circular
stroke. If you are using a two or three finger split, switch to
palming or giving oral, etc. Anything that changes the stimulation
and delivered lightly and gradually getting stronger in proportion
to her ability to enjoy it will help you get her to her next
climax.

Pay Attention To Her Responses... Always! Her Body Will Tell
You Everything You Need to Know!

C) Target another orgasm generating spot i.e. G- spot, deep spot
etc (this is where chaining comes in really handy.

D) Resume maximum sexual arousal using the "Secret Orgasm
Tips" until her refractory period is over and go for her next
orgasm.

Using the techniques in Secret Orgasm Tips can significantly
shorten the female orgasm refractory period and have her ready to
climax again in minutes.

If you haven't already downloaded your personal copy of "Secret
Orgasm Tips," what are you waiting for? These are the absolute
BEST secrets for taking you from "Joe average lover" to "Sexual
Super Star" in minimum time!

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These are just some of the irresistible sex secrets I use regularly
to give women an average of FIVE to TEN orgasms an hour
(my record is actually much higher) but for the average woman,
giving her five to ten orgasms in just one hour will make you
king in her eyes, have her begging you for more and more sex
every single day, cause her to do anything she can to please
you in every conceivable way and make you feel like an
unstoppable sex god in the process!

Well that's all for today ladies and gentlemen.

Be sure to give treat yourselves and your lovers to greater sex
than ever before learn the secret and sometimes forbidden sex
techniques that will take you from Sexual Zero to Sexual Hero in no
time flat! Download your copy of Secret Orgasm Tips! Today!

All the Best!

Sincerely,

David Van Arrick

Better Sex Video Series

2006-10-24T21:25:00.000-07:00

Better Sex Video Series

One of the best ways to enjoy and learn new sex techniques is buying a better sex video series. A better sex video series can provide you excellent information and newer ways to enjoy your sexual act. The video series will help you to know the importance of sex. The video series teaches you the different positions through which you can do your sexual act. A better sex video series also stresses on the point that you should be an active partner during the sexual act and not be a mere spectator. This is because if your partner finds of that you are not much interested in the act and always he takes the initiative then he might become frustrated after a while. Always remember that you are not here as a critic for your act but a serious participant.

Sex is not a duty or a formality to be completed but it is an act that has to be enjoyed throughout. A better sex video series helps you understand that sex is very necessary for a successful marriage. Sex is not everything in a marriage but sex is a very important component of your marriage. A better sex video series consists of a set of 2-6 cds that might be in a continuation series or on totally different subjects. For example, in case you want to know everything about Kamasutra, then you will have to buy a full set of DVDs as Kamasutra has more than a hundred different positions.

A better sex video series teaches you the finer nuances of sex, where you and your partner can see the full video and become experts within a few days. As a result you can share tips with friends as well. A better sex video series can be bought from your local store or can be ordered on the internet. There are hundreds of websites on the internet which have very good collections of a better sex video series. These series are sold at very reasonable costs and you are sure to find what you are looking for.

A better sex video series will reach your home in a few days after placing the order for the same. Do not watch all the series in one go. Watch just one series, enjoy it and then slowly proceed to the other cds. As a result you will be able to keep control on your sexual urge and will not be easily distracted during working hours in the day. At night you can tell your partner to watch the series with you and then enjoy the fantasies that you and your partner design in mid air.

Better Sex Video Series

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About The Author

Leah Holden is The "Better Sex Expert".

Leah's mission is sharing her vast array of sexual knowledge
with individuals and couples.

To spice up your sex life, please visit: Secret Orgasm Tips

****************************************************

Better Sex Tips for Couples

2006-10-22T20:07:00.000-07:00

Better Sex Tips for Couples

One recent survey in America concluded that approximately 50% of new marriage will end in divorce. The same survey also indicated that the trend is on the rise.

This is a sad truth and they are many reasons which contribute to a marital split, for example, lack of trust, lack of communication, lack of a satisfying sex life etc.

In this article, I am going to reveal some better sex tips for couples. Sex is one of the key elements to help maintain a strong and sustainable love life. It helps to build a strong bond between the couples and makes both of them come closer together.

Every couple needs sex for pleasure. It is necessary that all couples maintain their tempo of having sex throughout their married life. Having regular sex has proved to keep the relationship between the couples healthy and also helps to keep the fights at bay. How frequent should a couple have sex? The answer is depends, some couples enjoy having sex once a week, others three times a week and there are other couples who have sex everyday. At the end of the day, it all comes down to what feels right and satisfying for the particular couple.

In order to have better sex, both partners should take active participation in the sexual act. You should know your partner's hot buttons and know when to press it! You should not just be a spectator to the sexual act. In the end, there are chances that you and your partner will not be satisfied and you will be frustrated.
A trick to overcome this is to always remember the best sex that both of you had and your only duty is to deliver a sexual performance which surpass the last best experience. This is called continuous sexual improvement and a valuable trick to sustain a life long relationship.

Better sex for couples also includes being confident in the sexual act. You should also look, smell and feel good. No one would like to have sex with a person who has bad breath and whose body gives a foul order.

Sex can be performed anywhere. It is not necessary to have sex in the bedroom. Sex can be performed on the sofa, in the basement, under the stairs, in the car, in the garden shade, on the beach etc. The location and whereabout is only limited to your own imagination and creativity.

To enjoy better sex, both partners should have the same amount of passion between each other. Sex does not start under the sheets. It can start during the day like giving your partner a passionate kiss when he leaves for office or holding each other's hands in the park.

You should never plan the whole sexual act in advance but keep it spontaneous. The moves can change according to the situation. It is fine if you plan the first few moves in advance though to warm up the atmosphere.

Another very important tip for having better sex is foreplay. It is absolutely essential before you get into the actual act of making love. This is because foreplay breaks the ice and also creates a lot of excitement in you and your partner and makes you ready for the final act.

You can also create a romantic environment in your bedroom by lighting exotic candles, keeping the room dimly lit and decorating the room with flowers. This proves to be a perfect setting for your sexual act.

In the end, remember to tell your partner how exciting and pleasurable the whole sexual experience was and you would definitely love to do it more often.

Better Sex Tips for Couples

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About The Author

Leah Holden is The "Better Sex Expert".

Leah's mission is sharing her vast array of sexual knowledge
with individuals and couples.

To spice up your sex life, please visit: Secret Orgasm Tips

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Better Sex Positions

2006-10-18T00:00:00.000-07:00

Better Sex Positions

It is not necessary that you perform sex only in one position every time you have sex. It is said that variety is the spice of life and it also applies to sex as well. In this article we discuss some better sex positions so that you can practice the same with your partner. It is very necessary that you be careful while experimenting with a new position. You or your partner may not be comfortable with a new position or maybe feeling hurt. It is recommended that you stop performing the act immediately. Let us discuss some better sex positions in the next paragraph.

Different types of positions

Man on top

This is one of the most common positions where man gets on top of the women and they come face to face. Majority of the couples start their fist sexual act with this position. However nowadays people consider this position to be old fashioned and look for better sex positions.

Women on top

This is one of the more preferable positions today. In this case the woman gets on top of the man and she has total control on the speed of the sexual act. The most common position in this category is that the woman goes on top of the man who is lying on the bed and then inserts his penis inside her. She may choose to sit atop him, sliding up and down.

Sitting
In this case it is the man who sits on the bed or the chair and then the woman sits astride. The woman may be facing towards the man or facing away from him. This type of position is a little slower in pace than the other better sex positions.

Standing
This is one of the most difficult positions as both the partners are standing. Penetration may become difficult and since most of the women are shorter than their partners, they will have to stand on the stool to get into a better position. The partners may hold each other during the act to get a better grip.

Side-by-Side
In this case the partners lie on their sides on the bed. The only disadvantage in this position is that one partner has to keep his legs above the legs of the other partner and as a result the other partner may get cramps after a while.

Rear Entry
In this case the man inserts his penis from the rear end. This means the woman has to kneel on her knees and then the man enters from the rear.

Better Sex Positions

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About The Author

Leah Holden is The "Better Sex Expert".

Leah's mission is sharing her vast array of sexual knowledge
with individuals and couples.

To spice up your sex life, please visit: Secret Orgasm Tips

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How To Turn A Fridgid, Unresponsive Woman Into Your Sex Slave

2006-10-15T19:42:00.000-07:00

by David Van Arrick

One of the most gratifying parts of the work
that I do is helping people to overcome
obstacles that they may face in their sexual
lives.

I do this kind of work on a number of levels.

As a hypnotist, a practitioner of Oriental
Medicine, as a sex coach and ultimately as a
giver of information and dispelling many of
the myths and erroneous concepts that keep us
sexually in the stone ages...

(now don't get me wrong some people are really
turned on by being dragged around by their
hair... but that another topic completely.)

Perhaps the most immediate and global means
that I have to help as many folks out there
as possible is simply my ability to be able
to communicate with each and every one of you
out there.

Man or woman, all of us can benefit from
having an expanded understanding of our
sexuality and just how much joy, excitement,
pleasure, and fulfillment is possible when
you apply the secrets I am teaching you.

Today's question is from Doc, who writes...

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Dear David,

Are there women totally incapable of orgasm?
Especially the ejaculatory. Is there an age
limit for women for orgasm?

MY RESPONSE:>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Are there women totally incapable of orgasming?

To this question I have to qualify my answer.
If she is a healthy biologically sound woman
with all her parts intact, then yes! I believe
she is more than capable of orgasm.

Now, depending on her experiences growing up,
her past sexual history etc. there could be
some barriers to orgasm that may be in place.

I will share one such experience that ultimately
resulted in my beautiful paramour having the most
orgasmic experiences of her life, whereas prior
to our getting together she could never orgasm
with a partner before.

(I know, I'm THAT darn good. =)

I met this young woman through the INTERNET. We
exchanged pics and emails and finally met in
person.

It didn't take long for us to escalate our
relationship to the bedroom.

I noticed that she really, really loved sex, but
when she got close to orgasm she would pull back
or stop.

It took me a while to gain her trust about this
but she finally confided to me that she had been
molested when she was young and after that she
was never able to allow herself to have an orgasm
with a male partner.

Well at that point, being the compassionate soul
that I am, I made it my mission to free her from
her non-orgasmic prison.

It took a couple weeks, but finally one night I
looked her in the eyes and told her I wanted to
give her an orgasm.

She looked uncertain but my foreplay skills are
rather formidable, and her G-spot was primed for
pleasure!

(How to do this is explained in detail in my
book "Ten Keys to Maximum Sexual Arousal!")

After I had gotten her aroused to the necessary
level using the "Ten Keys," I began using my
special technique for creating the one orgasm
women can not fake.

I knew it would take a while without using the
rule of three, but I wanted to be sure she
wouldn't be holding herself back and then lie
to me about having an orgasm.

Women faking orgasms is a huge problem for us
men, and most women fail to recognize that faking
an orgasm only serves to perpetuate the less
than adequate sexual skills of their male lovers.

But because women are so bent on not hurting their
man's feelings, they fake orgasms, thus giving men
the wrong kind of feedback...

In other words, men think what they are doing is
working when it really isn't, and because they
think its working, they keep doing it...

It's a vicious cycle that... oops! I am off topic
again... sorry!

Back to the topic at hand...

Fifteen minutes after I began using my special
techniques, Elsie suddenly finds herself on my
bed wriggling in full-blown ecstasy as her body
is being rocked by one ultra powerful orgasmic
shockwave after another.

By the time it was over (or at least mostly over)
all she could do was lay there in a fetal position
soaking in a huge puddle of her own female ejaculate
totally and completely swept away and overwhelmed
by the tsunami-like force of her own orgasm!

Now, in Elsie's case, it took some time for me to
dissolve her sexual barriers and gain her trust
to the point where I could bring her to orgasm
and she would allow herself to be brought to
climax.

Most women that you meet will not have such hard
core issues, although they may have many
pre-conceived notions, myths and misconceptions
about what is possible for them based on the
experiences they have had with other lovers and
the books they have read.

The single biggest key for helping your woman
achieve orgasm is mastering the art of sexual
arousal.

Master this one area of sexual expertise and
women will beat a path to your door!

Are there any age limits to women achieving an
orgasm?

In my experience, there is no upper age limit for
a woman to experience an orgasm.

My personal belief is that women in their 80's
and 90's would still love to have good orgasms
and the more, the merrier.

For all I know, they may still enjoy them through
masturbation or from their husbands or significant
others. The onset of menopause only signifies the
end of childbearing years, not the end of a woman's
ability to be sexually responsive or experience
and enjoy orgasm.

In fact, I have gotten letters from folks in their
eighties thanking me for sharing my techniques
and how by using them they have significantly
improved their sex life after 50 years of marriage.

The simple truth is unless your heart won't take
the pressure (check with your doctors) there simply
is no age at which a healthy human being can not
have and enjoy an orgasm.

You're never too old to enjoy sex and you're never
too old to begin to sharpen and improve the sexual
skills that will give you countless hours of pleasure
and full and complete control of your sexual destiny.

All you have to do is choose to do the work I teach
in my course Secret Orgasm Tips

If you don't have this course yet, you can download
it here...

Click Here To Download Your Copy Today!

Until next time, may your orgasms be multiple and
your sex life never be the same again!

All the Best!

Sincerely,

David Van Arrick

Better Sex Techniques

2006-10-14T22:27:00.000-07:00

Better Sex Techniques

Today we discuss how to spice up your sex life by following some better sex techniques. It is rightly said that having sex is a right for all. However it is also very necessary not to have unprotected sex with multiple partners as it may invite a lot of trouble in the form of AIDS and other sexual diseases. Protected sex should also be followed to avoid unwanted pregnancies. Let us discuss some better sex techniques in the next few paragraphs.

The first and foremost principle to be followed for better sex techniques is that the sexual act should be enjoyed thoroughly. At the end of the sexual act you should be also to satisfy your partner and satisfy yourself. Sex is not a duty that has to be completed in a fixed time, it is a natural experience to be enjoyed without any limits on time.

It is very important to remember that sex does not start only in bed. In fact during the day also you can get a little intimate by kissing your partner when you go to office, holding your partner's hand in the park, etc. Touch plays a very important role in sex. It excites you and also gives you a feeling of security. You can rub your partner's shoulders or massage her back after a long working day. It is also very important to excite your partner by looking good and smelling good. For example, your partner would not like to kiss you if you are suffering from bad breath all the time.

Better sex techniques trying out new ways to excite your partner. A little bit of foreplay is a must in the beginning. Then you can slowly take things further up. It is not advisable to rush through your sexual act as sex is an experience to be enjoyed. Rushing through your sexual act will not leave you satisfied many times.

A better sex technique also involves making your partner feel how enjoyable the whole act was and telling her that she is great in bed. Also tell her that you both should have sex more often. Also sex is something that is planned as well as spontaneous too. You can start the sexual act as you have planned but then adjust according to the situation in the later stages. While doing sex, you stop thinking about anything else other than what you are doing at that time.

Better Sex Techniques

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About The Author

Leah Holden is The "Better Sex Expert".

Leah's mission is sharing her vast array of sexual knowledge
with individuals and couples.

To spice up your sex life, please visit: Secret Orgasm Tips

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How to Have Better Sex

2006-10-11T18:35:00.000-07:00

How to Have Better Sex

In this article we discuss how you can have better sex. It is the responsibility of both the partners to enjoy their sexual act in a natural way and not criticize the act at the end. Both the partners have to remember that for having better sex both the partners should be active partners to the sexual act and not be mere participants.

Foreplay is the most important thing in having better sex. Foreplay includes kissing and caressing the erogenous zones of your partner's body, massaging your partner's body with scented oils, running your fingers through your partner's hair, whispering naughty things in her hear, etc. The basic reason of foreplay is to make your partner excited for the act and also make the act last longer naturally. In the next paragraph we discuss some very important points for having better sex.

One partner should take the initiative and the other partner should respond well to the sexual act. This action will definitely lead to better sex with your partner. Also better sex starts with the right attitude that you have towards each other. Sex is a joyful and a pleasurable experience and you should also be generous and understanding to your partner. This is because your partner will then respond in the same way as you do. It should be remembered that sex is not a duty that has to be forgotten after it is finished, but sex is an experience that has to be enjoyed with your partner of your and your partner's free will.

The best part in having better is to devise newer and newer ways to satisfy yourself and your partner. Orgasm should not always be the ultimate aim of having better sex, but satisfaction should be given more importance. It is important to experience the sexual act slowly instead of winding things up just for the sake of it.

You can also buy yourself books, magazines and videos on how to have better sex. All these sources can be ordered from the confines of your home and delivered at your door step. These sources show you different ways to have better sex and be more confident in the sexual act. It is not necessary that every time you take the initiative. Let your partner take the initiative as well so that she gains the confidence that she also has the ability to start the sexual act.

How to Have Better Sex

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About The Author

Leah Holden is The "Better Sex Expert".

Leah's mission is sharing her vast array of sexual knowledge
with individuals and couples.

To spice up your sex life, please visit: Secret Orgasm Tips

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Better Sex

2006-10-11T18:10:00.000-07:00

Better Sex

Welcome to my Better Sex blog.

I'm a Sex Expert. I can't imagine living my life without better sex.

I'd like to share different better sex tips and tricks with you in my blog. Hopefully, you and your partner will benefit from these sex tips and enjoy an increasing amount of love and intimacy.

Better Sex